Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Weekly Goals: 8-5-12

Here are this week's goals (repeating goals that need improvement are marked with an *):


Spiritual Life

  • *Read Bible daily.  I am going to plan our when to read and put it on my calendar this week.
  • *Be more consistent in praying for requests on my list

Family life

  • Kids get home tonight! (Tuesday)
  • Play at least one board game with the kids

 

Home life

  • Finish all laundry (it will probably be Wednesday before it is all done because I work until 8:00 tonight and the kids will be bringing home dirty laundry)
  • Clean off my desk.  It is mostly clean from last week.  But, it is starting to collect stuff again.  I need to make sure everything gets to its real home.
  • *Wipe down bathroom daily
  • *Vacuum steps
  • Work more on playroom/schoolroom.  This week I need to work on our new calendar.

 

Church Life

  • Prepare to teach Sunday School
  • Attend church Wednesday and sing a solo.  This means finding music and practicing!
  • *Set up meeting with the Pastor to talk about Harvest fest.  Meeting can be any time in the next couple weeks.

Physical Life

  • *Write down every bite I eat!  
  • Lose at least 1 pound. 
  • *Try to get to bed by 11:30 every night I don't work, 12:15 on the nights I do.
  • *Drink more water. 
  • *Put on makeup every day
  • *Exercise at least one day

Social Life

  • Attend wedding on Saturday (Another one.  This one is local.)

Financial life

  • *Update budget software daily
  • *Do not overspend! (I went over a little on my grocery budget and really need to watch it!) 
  • Pay bills 

Mental life

  • Return the one library book. 
  • Download the book I'm currently reading.
  • Continue working on blog  

Homeschool Life

  • *Buy Math curriculum. 
  • *Buy some Five in a Row books 
  • Start printing off resources for lessons.

 

Work Life

  • Complete worksheet Kathy sent me.
  • Continue working on the other packet.
  • Go to work on Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday

Week in Review: 7-29-12

Because I was gone on Saturday and most of Sunday, I didn't get to post my weekly review of my goals from last week or my goals for this week.  Since they are such an important part of the process of me trying to grow and get better with age, I don't want to skip them entirely.  Better late than never!

Here's my weekly review.  I'll follow up with another post with this week's goals.

Spiritual Life

  • *Read Bible daily.  I am going to plan our when to read and put it on my calendar this week. I did much better this week!  The only day I missed was Saturday because we were in the car all day and then had the wedding that night.
  • Be more consistent in praying for requests on my list I prayed for requests several times, but didn't do it daily. 
  • *Continue to work on being more joyful. I think I did pretty well this week.

Family life

  • Help kids prepare for their vacation. Check!
  • Pack for DH and I Check!

 

Home life

  • Finish all laundry on Monday Check!
  • Clean bathroom on Monday Check!
  • Clean off my desk Check! (although it is starting to fill back up.  I might have to do a quick once-over today)
  • *Wipe down bathroom daily Check!
  • *Vacuum steps I didn't get to this again!  It is going to have to go at the top of my list this week.
  • Work more on playroom/schoolroom Check!

 

Church Life

  • Pray for my Sunday School class while I'm away.  Our pastor's wife is teaching this week, so I know they are in good hands! Check!
  • Attend church Wednesday Check!
  • *Set up meeting with the Pastor to talk about Harvest fest.  Meeting can be any time in the next couple weeks.  Grr.  I'll call today.  I promise.

Physical Life

  • *Write down every bite I eat!   I completely failed this one. 
  • Lose at least 1 pound.  Nope.  To much fast-food while on the road.
  • *Try to get to bed by 11:30 every night. I did this every night I was home except on Friday when I worked until 11:30.
  • *Drink more water.  Hmmm....I think I might have failed this one, too.
  • *Put on makeup every day Not every day.  But, I did put it on most days.  I'll have to share more about why this is on my list, sometime.
  • *Exercise at least one day Fail.
(Can you tell I have lots of work to do in this area?)

Social Life

  • Attend wedding on Saturday Check!

Financial life

  • *Update budget software daily I think I might have missed a couple of days and had to catch up.
  • *Do not overspend! (I went over a little on my grocery budget and really need to watch it!)  Fail.  I went over with groceries.  But, like I shared yesterday, I am working on this!
  • Pay bills Check!
  • *Have budget meeting with DH on Monday Check!

Mental life

  • Read second library book I'm in the middle of it now.  Unfortunately it is due back tomorrow and I wasn't able to renew it because someone else already requested it.  I might go download it for my iPad using my Amazon gift card.
  • Renew library books Check! (all except the one I'm in the middle of)
  • Continue working on blog  Check!

Homeschool Life

  • *Buy Math curriculum.  I'm still searching.  But, I might just have to give up and go with something a little more expensive, but still not full-price.
  • *Buy some Five in a Row books I was waiting to see how much the math would cost me.  But, I'm going to buy both this week.
  • *Plan the calendar for the coming school year. Check!  We will be starting back to school on August 22.  That's just about two weeks!!!  Yikes!

 

Work Life

  • Make at least one new worksheet packet to send to Kathy for review Well, I'm working on one still, but she actually sent one to me to complete.  So, work is getting done!
  • Start at least one other packet Check!

Monday, August 6, 2012

My First Menu Plan Monday Link-Up!

Today, I am linking up to Menu Plan Monday over at I'm an Organizing Junkie for the first time!  I'm really excited to do this.  This will be my first link up and I must have read the instructions about a million times to make sure I get it right!  But, I'm going to brave it and give it a try.

Menu planning has been a part of my routine for several years now.  I absolutely hate going to the grocery store, so it helps cut down on extra trips.  It also saves me from trying to come up with an idea for dinner at the last minute, only to not have everything I need on hand.  I've learned that lesson the hard way!

But, my system wasn't as good as it could be.  One big red flag was how much we spend on groceries every month.  This is the part of our budget that I have the hardest time with.  I often find myself either going over-budget or with nothing left to eat at the end of the month.  Enter Kate Megill from Teaching What is Good and her new e-book, Cut it Out!  How I Feed my Family of 10 for $500 a Month Without Coupons. 

Wow!  I read the book in about 45 minutes last week and I learned so much!  I'm working on putting it all into practice over the next month or so.  I'll be writing more about that in the weeks to come, I'm sure!  Since I only have 4 people in my family, this makes me really see that we pay way too much for groceries!

I was able to take the first few steps this week and have a fresh menu plan for the next two weeks and a shopping list.  Tomorrow I am headed to the grocery store to work on my price list.  Since the kids are still on vacations, it is the perfect time for an extra long shopping trip. 

Here's this week's menu:

Monday - Crockpot chicken, mashed potatoes, green beans, rolls
Tuesday - Tacos, refried beans
Wednesday - Chicken casserole (made with leftover chicken from Monday), bread
Thursday - Smoked sausage, shells & cheese, mashed potatoes, bread
Friday - Spaghetti & meatballs, salad, garlic bread
Saturday - Chicken noodle soup (Made with the last of the chicken from Monday, plus an extra chicken breast, and broth made from the carcass of Monday's bird), bread
Sunday - Breakfast: Sausage links, scrambled eggs, fried potatoes, toast

I am working on Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday this week (yuck!) and I have church on Wednesday night.  So, I need to have meals that will be easy and quick for my hubby to make when he gets home from work.  Some of the menu items can be made ahead of time to make it as easy as possible.  Some of the things on my menu I could make from scratch.  But, since I am working I also need to be careful of my time. 

Because of this, I'm not cutting out all my convenience food right away.  I'm going to slowly build up to it and do more freezer cooking on the weekends.  For example, I might use a few extra chicken breast and make two chicken casseroles this week.  One to eat and one to freeze.  Until I get to the point where I have plenty of pre-made home-cooked food, I'm not going to feel guilty about not making as much from scratch.  I have to work toward balance between money and time.

Saturday, August 4, 2012

Buh-Bye

Well, the kids are off on their adventure.  I managed not to cry until they left.  I'm pretty proud of myself actually.  Now, hubby and I are headed out.  I'll be back to post again on Monday!

Friday, August 3, 2012

Packing is so Much Easier Now!

I mentioned a few weeks ago that I was going to give having a "Laundry Day" a try.  It took almost a whole week to catch up on my laundry.  But, since then, it has been going great!  I never have that overwhelming feeling of being behind, we always have clean clothes (too many clothes to fit in the drawers, it turns out!), and I don't even have to think about laundry the rest of the week!  I'm loving it!

Before switching to this system, packing for a trip was horrible!  It was a chore that took days and days.  Because, not only did I have to plan what we were going to wear and actually pack it, I had to go dig it out of the mounds of dirty clothes, wash it, and dry it before it could be packed.  Pure torture for someone like me!

But, this time it is different.  There are no mounds of dirty clothes.  There are just a few loads and they are all from this week.  Since it is only a week's worth of clothes and we have a ton more than that, I knew there were plenty of clean, nice clothes that I could easily go get out of the drawers, make into outfits, and pack in their duffel bag.  In fact, we have enough clean clothes, that I can do this a few days in advance and not be rushing at the last minute.  Especially important since I have to work tonight and they are leaving early tomorrow.

To make it even better, I decided to use my mom's system of packing for kids.  You see, my mom is extremely organized and neat.  I seriously don't know how I ended up the way I am.  If you need something done in an orderly way, call my mom.  She's the woman for the job.  This is just one of the great ideas she had way before the days of Pinterest where I get all my great ideas.

First, I figured out how many outfits each child needs.  I always make sure to pack at least one extra because, well,  kids will be kids.  I laid all the outfit out on my bed to make sure I had everything I need.


Then, I packed each outfit in a zipper bag.  I included underwear, socks, hair accessories, etc.


Then, I squeeze out the air.  This helps save room so that more can fit in the suitcase.

Here are all their outfits, in bags, ready to go.  I put all their pj's in one bag along with their bathing suit.


Now, when Bub or Sis go to get dressed each day, they can just grab a bag and go.  If an outfit was for a special event or outing (eating at a nice restaurant, going on a hike where they are likely to get dirty, etc) I wrote that on the bag with a sharpie.  This will keep them from putting on the nice outfit on they day my parents plans for them to get covered in mud.

This is especially helpful for Sis's patterned shorts that only match a couple of shirts.  I don't want her wearing them with the wrong top and having nothing to match the other top later in the week.  At home, that wouldn't be a problem because she could just choose another top.  But, she won't have that option in Gatlinburg.

Here is everything all packed up and ready to go.  Now, all I have to do is add their toiletries on Saturday morning.   I'm loving laundry day!


Thursday, August 2, 2012

Empty Nest (For a Few Days, at Least)

My kids are leaving me.  They are packing up, waving good-bye, and headed to Gatlinburg for 4 whole days.  I really isn't fair. :-<

I want them to have a good time, but this will be the longest I've ever been away from my kids in their almost 7 years on Earth.  I'm having a bit of a hard time with the whole thing.

Kids and me in the Smokey Mountains 2009
You see, I was originally only going to be separated from them for one night.  My husband and I were headed to a wedding out of town and my parents were going to keep the kids overnight for us.  No big deal.  We've done over-nights before.  But, then my sister had the great idea to invite my parents along when she and my brother-in-law went to Gatlinburg that same weekend.  Since my parents were already watching the kids, they asked if they could just take them with them.  Granted, they probably would have wanted the kids to go along anyway.  But, last time that happened, I was invited, too (Who can pass up a free vacation?  Poor hubby had to work.).  Not this time.  I already had plans and they knew it.

So, on Saturday morning, I need to get up and take my kids to my parent's house.  Then, I'll watch them drive away for a fun-filled vacation without me.  Of course, I'm a little disappointed that I don't get to go on a fun trip.  But, really, I'm just sad that I don't get to experience all the fun my kids will have.  Because, I know they are going to have a great time!  They will come home with tons of stories and pictures to share.  And, I'll be here waiting - excited to see them and missing them so bad I could burst!

I'm not sure what I'm going to do with myself after I get home from the wedding.  I've never had the house to myself for two whole days!  Maybe I'll take a nap!  Maybe I'll read a book!  Maybe I'll watch a sappy movie!  Definitely miss my kids.

The whole situation has me realizing that I need to treasure my time with my kids.  They aren't going to be kids forever.  Eventually they are going to grow up and move out.  (Except, of course, Bubby, who swears he is never getting married and is going to live with me forever.  I'll have to remind him of that one day when he brings home the girl he plans to marry.)  Someday I really will be an empty-nester.  But, until then, I need to make the most of the time God has given us to be together.  This trip is going to be a growing experience for all of us.

 

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Homemade Laundry Detergent - The FAST way!

When I went to start my first load of laundry on Monday (my new laundry day) this is what I found:

Homemade Laundry Soap detergent
Oops!
I had used up the last of my laundry soap last week and had "forgotten" to make more.  Why didn't I just do it last Monday?  Well, if I knew the answer to that I might actually have a clean house!

Thankfully I had all the supplies on hand to make another batch.  Now, I just need to remember to pick up more the next time I'm at the grocery store or that won't be true next time!

I have been making my own laundry soap for several years now.  It is a frugal girl's perfect project.  Our clothes are clean and we save a ton of money!  When I first started making it, I made liquid soap.  My only reason for doing this is that, when I bought the commercial stuff, I bought liquid.  It was what I was used to.  But, it only took a few batches before I realized that I could make powdered soap in 1/4 the time.  Less time spent making it made it more likely I'd actually keep with it and not just go back to the commercial detergent.  

I love saving money, but I also love saving time!


I was a little worried about using powder at first.  But, even when I use cold water (almost every load) it dissolves just fine and does just as good a job as the liquid.  So, I've stuck with powder ever since.

The recipe I use needs three ingredients:
Homemade Laundry Soap detergent recipe ingredients
Borax, Fels Naptha, Super Washing Soda
  • Fels Naptha
  • Borax
  • Super Washing Soda (this is not baking soda, but it is made by Arm & Hammer and looks very similar)
You can find all three in the Laundry aisle of most grocery stores.  If you don't find it right away, you may need to check another store.  I also have all three available on my Amazon store if you are unable to find them at your grocery store.

I use equal parts of all three ingredients.  I've read several recipes that call for different amounts of each.  Because, there are so many different ratios being suggested, I realized that the exact ratio isn't a huge deal.  So, I made it easy on myself and use roughly equal parts.  I don't actually measure, but instead, just do it by eye.

How to Make Powdered Laundry Soap

First, find a container.  If you are like me, you might get frozen right here while you try to decided the perfect container.  It would have to be pretty, functional, and creative.  It would require a special shopping trip to Hobby Lobby or Michael's.  You would need to find some time to do a little crafting.   STOP!!!!  Any old container will do!  If, in the future you happen to find one that fits all those criteria, great!  Until then, grab an empty butter tub, one of those disposable "Glad" containers (or "Kroger" if you are like me), or even an old powdered laundry soap container.  Like this:
Homemade Laundry Soap detergent Container
The "perfect" container is the one that is free and you already have laying around!

Next, grab your ingredients.  We'll start with the Fels Naptha.  You will need to grate it.  There are several different ways to do this.  The most basic being to grab a cheese grater and get to work.  But, I like to take the faster, less work intense route.  Remember, we're going for FAST here!  So, I use my food processor!

Homemade Laundry Soap detergent how-to food processor

Since all the ingredients are the same ones you can use to make homemade dishwasher soap, I know it is safe.  I just make sure to clean it out really well when I'm done.

To get the Fels Naptha really fine, I use two different blades at the same time.  I use the chopping blade inside:


And the grating plate on the top.  If your food processor is like mine, make sure the plate is turned so that it will grate and not slice.  I've learned to double check this the hard way!

The grating plate will grate the soap and the chopping blade will make it into a fine powder.  While that isn't necessary (I've made it with just the soap grated before) it does help.  If you have an attachment that will stop up the opening, use it.  You want all the soap to stay inside the processor.

Homemade Laundry Soap detergent Fels Naptha grate food processor

Put the lid on and go ahead and grate your Fels Naptha.  Notice, I have my container sitting under the opening.  Even though I have the attachment in there to close it, a little soap still escapes and I want to catch it all!  After you are finished grating, you might notice you have some large chucks of soap that didn't grate.


You can save this to make some spot treatment, (just dissolve in water and put in a spray bottle or just wet the bar and rub it on a spot) or you can throw it in the bottom of the processor, put the lid back on, and turn the food processor back on.  It will get chopped up and you won't even know it was there.  Since I have plenty of spot treatment, I went ahead and chopped it up.

Homemade Laundry Soap detergent Fels Naptha food processor

When you are finished, you will have a fine powder.  I used two bars, so if you use just one, you might not have as much as is pictured.


Next, add an equal amount of Borax or Washing Soda:


Then, add an equal amount of whichever ingredient you didn't add before (aren't I so precise?):


Yes, my food processor is REALLY full at this point.  But, it can still do the job!  Put the lid on and give it a whirl!  You will be able to see it mixing together and will know when it is done.  It should look something like this:

Homemade Laundry Soap detergent Fels Naptha Borax Super Washing Soda food processor mixing

Pour it in your container and you are ready to go! 



The whole process probably takes about 10 minutes at the most (remember, I have trouble with my internal chore-clock and I couldn't time myself because I kept stopping to take pictures).  And I've made enough to last several months!

I use one tablespoon of soap in each load.  I had an old Oxy Clean (or Kroger's version) scoop left over that works perfectly.  If I have a really dirty load, I might add another scoop.


That's it!  It is really simple and so inexpensive!  So, if you thought making your own laundry soap was too much work or took too much time, think again!

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Internal Chore-Clock

Some people have a knack for knowing how long something is really going to take.  They know if they need to leave at 5:00, exactly which chores they have time for.  Not me.  I think my internal chore-clock is broken.  I am always overestimating or under-estimating the amount of time something will take.  I'm never just right.  And I never know which of those options it will be!

I often find myself looking at something that needs to be done and thinking, "That is going to take forever!"  When I finally get to it and tackle the job, I find out it didn't take nearly as long as I thought.  Or, I'll look at a task and be sure I have plenty of time to finish it.  But, I'll run out of time (or energy) and have to leave it half-done.  

But, a few days ago, I read a tip on A Slob Comes Clean.  I can't link to the exact post where she talks about it since I am in the process of reading through the entire blog from beginning to end.  But, she mentions that someone once recommended that she time herself doing some of her chores.  That way she can have a realist idea of how long certain tasks really take.

Duh!  Why did I never think of this!  What better way to get a better grasp on the length of time by chores take than to actually time myself doing them?

So, today I timed myself cleaning my bathroom.  Here is the challenge I faced:





Yep, that's my messy bathroom.  I will say that the curtain normally doesn't look like that.  It must have gotten messed up when I closed it after my shower.  I normally fix it as soon as I see that happen.  But, I didn't notice it until I came back to take some pictures.  But, I figured, in order to be completely honest I had to leave it that way for the picture.

This is our one and only bathroom.  So, it gets lots of use!  This is even the cat's bathroom.  Notice the litter box in the corner?  I've tried moving it to the garage, but, I just can't remember to clean it when it is down there.  Unfortunately, there really isn't a better place for it.  But, Allie Cat isn't always the neatest in the bathroom.  Sometimes her little gets tracked on the floor a little.  Yuck!







So, how long did I think cleaning the bathroom would take me?  My guess was about an hour.  An hour?!  For a tiny bathroom?!  Why, yes.  After all, listen to everything that needed to be done:

  • Counter cleared (and everything put away where it belongs)
  • Sink cleaned
  • Counter wiped down
  • Stuff that stays on the counter wiped off
  • Toilet scrubbed
  • Toilet wiped down (inside, outside, top, and bottom - after all I have a little boy)
  • Liter box scooped
  • Take out the garbage
  • Replace garbage bag
  • Towels changed
  • Everything on the floor taken out
  • Go find broom and mop
  • Floor swept
  • Floor mopped
  • Everything put back where it belongs
  • Put broom and mop away
  • Scrub my hands
How long did all of this really take me?  30 minutes and 10 seconds.  Half the time I thought it would!   And that was with a break so Bubby could use the bathroom!  Not too shabby!  Had I actually been keeping up with the clutter on the counter or wiping down all the surfaces, it probably would have taken half that. 

Here is the final product:




My counters a cleared (except the stuff that belongs there which is place neatly), all the surfaces are clean and sanitary, the litter box has been scooped, the linens are fresh, and everything smells nice!  Since I've been cleaning my shower while I'm in it with my kitchen scrub brush, I didn't need to do anything to the shower.

So, now I know that it takes about a half-hour to clean my messy bathroom from top to bottom.  I also know that if I do my daily Swish n' Swipe (ala Flylady) it will take even less time.

Maybe I'm on my way to retraining my internal chore-clock!



Monday, July 30, 2012

Family Pictures

I mentioned that my family had pictures taken yesterday.  My best friend's boyfriend took them and they turned out great!  I thought I'd share them here.


My family with the Cincinnati skyline in the background

Top (L to R): My sister (I know she looks 12, but she's really 23), me, my mom, my grandma (the kids call her Grandma Two)   Bottom (L to R):  My son, my brother-in-law, my husband, my dad, my daughter

My kids love their grandparents!

Aww.....How sweet.  Now if they were always that nice...

Jumping for joy!

This is one of my favorites.  He told them to kiss, but they couldn't stop laughing long enough to kiss for the camera!  How cute!

Weekly Goals: 7-29-12

Well, I'm a day late, but I'm here!  Yesterday was so busy.  We had church in the morning where I taught Sunday School and then learned a lot from the sermon.  Then, the kids had their last baseball game of the summer.  After the game, we had to eat (we were starving by then!) and rush home to get ready for family pictures.  I'll post some of the pictures later today.

By the time I got home last night I did nothing but crash on the couch from exhaustion!  But, I'm back now and I'll post this week's goals.  I'm putting an * next to the ones that I need to improve on from last week.

I'm adding a new category this week: Work Life.  My best friend and I are doing well on our Teacher's Pay Teacher's store, but we really need to get more stuff up on the site.  So, I have to set some goals for myself and get to it!

Also, this week is going to be a little crazy.  My husband and I are headed to an out of town wedding on Saturday and spending the night.  So, my parents decided to take the kids to Gatlinburg!  They are leaving early Saturday and won't be home until Tuesday.  So, I have lots of packing to do to prepare.

Spiritual Life

  • *Read Bible daily.  I am going to plan our when to read and put it on my calendar this week.
  • Be more consistent in praying for requests on my list
  • *Continue to work on being more joyful. 

Family life

  • Help kids prepare for their vacation.
  • Pack for DH and I

 

Home life

  • Finish all laundry on Monday
  • Clean bathroom on Monday
  • Clean off my desk
  • *Wipe down bathroom daily
  • *Vacuum steps
  • Work more on playroom/schoolroom 

 

Church Life

  • Pray for my Sunday School class while I'm away.  Our pastor's wife is teaching this week, so I know they are in good hands!
  • Attend church Wednesday
  • *Set up meeting with the Pastor to talk about Harvest fest.  Meeting can be any time in the next couple weeks.

Physical Life

  • *Write down every bite I eat!  
  • Lose at least 1 pound. 
  • *Try to get to bed by 11:30 every night.
  • *Drink more water. 
  • *Put on makeup every day
  • *Exercise at least one day
(Can you tell I have lots of work to do in this area?)

Social Life

  • Attend wedding on Saturday

Financial life

  • *Update budget software daily
  • *Do not overspend! (I went over a little on my grocery budget and really need to watch it!) 
  • Pay bills 
  • *Have budget meeting with DH on Monday

Mental life

  • Read second library book
  • Renew library books
  • Continue working on blog  

Homeschool Life

  • *Buy Math curriculum. 
  • *Buy some Five in a Row books 
  • *Plan the calendar for the coming school year.

 

Work Life

  • Make at least one new worksheet packet to send to Kathy for review
  • Start at least one other packet